Re: Casey D./Louis D.
Well that is a relief, it didn't exactly feel that way at the time, so I appreciate you clarifying.
Honestly? I have no idea, because I have no idea what actually happened. From the way I saw it, no one over reacted. You're angry and you've a right to be. But it doesn't matter, because you are entitled to feel any way you like, any way this situation has made you feel for whatever reason is yours to own. But what I don't want to see is you letting it get to you to the point where you're sitting here feeling badly for reacting the way you did. It doesn't matter if you over reacted, what matters is that you got to say exactly how you were feeling in that exact moment. You can't always count on people to do that, and I'm glad you did. I'm glad he did. Maybe you're both not seeing this situation for exactly what it is - I know I sure as hell can't wrap my head around it at all - and you've both seen it from your own perspectives. And it seems to me, that for the first time, you both let those perspectives out for the other to see.
Just my two cents. I'm a big fan of emotional honesty, even if it hurts sometimes. It can also heal in the long run.