Re: Ashleigh/Casey
By saying you couldn't live with yourself for doing something "like that" it implies its something bad. And it isn't. That's what I was talking about.
Being unable to "live with yourself" for getting an abortion is the one of the most selfish reason I can imagine for having a child. So I hope thats not the only reason you're aiming for.
That being said, Ash, its your decision regardless - and it doesn't matter what I think - but what bugs me is that clearly you've already made up your mind you're just refusing to own up to it. So whats with the song and dance of it being a catastrophe? If your mind is all made up and you've got it all sorted then why even engage in this dialog at all?
I'm not trying to tell you what to do, because talk about setting your gender back, but if you won't even consider all of the options available to you then you're already not being practical about anything. Which is what you said you'd try and do. My hands are tied and this conversation is useless, yeah?