And no one wants to cry all the time, but it is healthy. Start looking at it as part of your conditioning. It's helped me.
Death is in love with your boyfriend, and you put her in her place. What exactly started all of this? Has it been brewing for a while? Has she recently gone psychotic? I'm going to need a few more details. Especially because I am no sure if we ought to be pissing Death off at this point considering what has happened to our family.