That can happen? Shit And yes, it sounds complex. I'm not sure how much help I can be in that matter at all, but I work out at the Area so if someone needs launching into space you let me know.
I'm trying to get her to come and stay with me until she's back on her feet. I don't think she's going home. It's not just asking for help, it's getting her to actually take it when it's freely offered. Believe me, I'm not much one for accepting help either, but it was partly her gentle nudges and not so subtle kicks in the gut got me to get my act together and accept some assistance. So I just hope one day I can repay the favor.