You don't know me from some random on the street, I wouldn't have banked on me either. No harm done, and not that I'm glad you had anything worry about but I'm glad you were worried if only because I think she needs that.
Well...Let's be honest, I don't presume to tell anyone (least of all Iris) what she needs but I think consistent people to fuss over her every now and again makes a world of difference.