Re: gwen s/peter p
For what's right. I know you feel like you made a mistake, but keeping it to yourself is only going to make things worse. I don't want to be mean, but the reasons you're throwing out for why you don't want to tell him, they feel like rationalizations. Because you don't want to go through it, and because every day you wait compounds how bad the blowout will be. But that doesn't mean to never tell him and have him be totally blindsided when his kid shows up on his doorstep one day.