Re: Gwen S/Neil D
You don't have to justify things to me. I'm no better at making choices than you are, and I'm trying not to be hypocritical now that I'm older. With the exception of your final sentences, you sound a lot like me talking about Harry. There's a better choice for me, and I like him, but Harry is still there, no matter how many times I say I only care about him, or however many times I remind myself that he hurt me years ago, and he'll probably do it again if I let my guard down.