okay, for real. my boyfriend and i are at each of our parent's house for christmas break. when we're at school we're together a majority of the time, or enough to not have a desire or need to hear from the other via text/calling when we're not together. but when we're at our parents' we don't really see each other ever unless we specifically plan to hang out. i like to text him every once in a while, maybe just to tell him something, see what he's up to, say hi, just to keep up with him and let him know i'm thinking of him. but he will never do the same in return. if i didn't initiate communication i don't think i would hear from him at all. i don't want/need to be on the phone all day but even a simple text message or a 5 minute phone call would suffice.
it just bothers me that i become seemingly non-existant to him when we're not together, is that wrong of me? i can't tell if i'm being too clingy or if this is a legitimate complaint. what do you think? how often do you talk to your significant other when you're apart?