ok, here's the deal. i'm a college freshman and i've been hooking up with this kid off and on since september. we both have hooked up with other people as well, yet we always return to each other and definitely have a strong physical connection. i have made the terrible, horrible, awful mistake of becoming somewhat emotionally interested in him as well. i've never really wanted a relationship, but now i do, and i've started to really like him. here's the thing, though: i really am so unsure of whether he would want a relationship or if he just wants to keep hooking up. either way, i want one or the other. i really want to know how he feels without sounding weird, or making it seem like i'm really into him if he's not, since he'll probably end everything if that's the case, which would honestly devastate me. so, what's the best way for me to bring this up to him without things getting awkward and weird? i feel so immature asking for your advice, but i'm really stuck here, haha. thanks so much, div :(