i don't see how my first reply was an insult as i was just stating my opinion, i was a bit taken aback with her response because it is ignorant to suggest that the only reason one can be overweight is to overeat.
as for you, miss thang - "btw, someone who is morbidly obese certainly has other health problems, probably because of the weight." absolutely! i concur! however, if i cut off my own legs and go to the hospital for it, is the hospital going to let me wither in agony because i brought the pain on myself? no, because pain is pain regardless of how it is induced. that's not how it works!