If Styx had a polished horse hoof for every single time she did something for the sole reason that family asked her to, or was bribed with the reason of: your children will be there, then she would be able to tile the entire bottom of her river -every loop around the underworld and all tributaries, with hand-filed horse hoof tiles. And yet... she did these things, because of said requests and verbal bribes, because she loved her family regardless of how pithy she might be at times.
She almost defaults to an incredible black Alexander McQueen dress she had, but then she remembered a smart comment from Philotes about how everything she owned was black and her mind changed immediately. It was the only explanation she would give for the choice of silver brocade sheath cocktail dress and a silver & black metal filigree mask with rhinestone accent. It wasn't like that sort of thing was normally expected of her. But, It didn't really hide who she was either.
Hate didn't care. She wasn't hiding anyway. She preferred her children to be able to easily find her. She was there for their benefit more than her own.