The chance to go through the proper process of grief and letting each of them go... each death, traumatic or not, was not only appealing but probably what she needed to do. There hadn't been time or opportunity. There was too much to do, she had to keep going. She had to keep going for her family, for her husband, for their people... stay strong and keep pushing on. The crushing blow that finally had her give up and retreat with Cadmus to Elysium was an escape from pain, not a way to deal with it.
How was that even going to work now? The only way to find out was going to be to ask.
Harmonia swallowed and breathed deeply a few times, keeping as much control over her tears as possible. “How would I do that now?” She asked, honestly. “I can't go back...” in time. She couldn't go back in time to when it was new and fresh and able to be closed properly.
And... what was more, even if she could trigger the proper fresh mental state to go into mourning like the death had just happened, a period of relative seclusion had usually been required... How was she couldn't to manage that. Now? How would she put her entire new life on hold for however long it would take -if this is what it took, so she could mourn? There was no question that Tyr would understand, though it would probably sadden him and that would break her heart. But...
Her family.
Harmonia could already feel the rolling eyes and the sighs of irritation.