She has to learn to love someone without being able to see all the moving parts and pieces (journalist's worst nightmare) and just ... not being able to see him at all. He has a bit of a Beauty & The Beast hurdle to overcome; he has to earn love based on merit, and prove himself worthy of keeping it - more than that, he has to be disciplined and wise enough to give and earn trust, because there's that little clause about horrible things happening if his wife should get too inquisitive and try to see him by light before his curse runs its course ... Then there's the political climate and their potentially conflicting situations, which is still a pressure cooker scenario.
I'm rambling. It's all sorts of juicy with a partner who wants to plot and world build though, which I'd love. I've been stuck playing male roles a lot lately so I'd love to play the female role, but I might be swayed for the right partner.