Kat
I never knew his father so I'm not really sure, but he does look like him at times. I'll ask Maryanne at some point, I'm sure she can see all of it. It doesn't really bother me or anything, I never had much family, it's amazing enough that they let me be a part of their lives, I wouldn't want to make any of them feel...unwanted just because they don't share my DNA. As far as distancing, I don't think I do that. I want him to know about his father, know that I'm sure he would be proud and would love him if he were still here, but that I do just as much.
I don't think it has to be that there is only room for one person to be mom and one person to be dad, I think we, especially as kids, have the room and the capability to accept as many as we need to fill those roles. Because everyone is going to fill them differently. So I won't mind when my kids call Tony dad, or when Bucky does, because to them we're both there for them equally, in different ways.
That wasn't me. There was another version of myself here at one point, who comes from the same universe Tony does. My universe is very similar, with most of the same people and some of the same lives but is different in a lot of ways too. Loki is dangerous, and I would not trust him, but the one that's here has never done that to me.