Yeah, I didn't lash out until I'd been provoked either. So maybe I should blame you for the fact that they're rude little brats that have no sense of responsibility or understand the rule 'do onto others as you would have them do onto you'.
I'm not acting like that's the problem, her problem is the way she's doing it.
Do you like contradicting yourself? Like using that double edged sword? Your kids have be absolutely nasty to three people at least. Uncalled for malice used with two. Acting like they're some wounded birds that have no hope of ever flying again. Everyone here, with an exception of the infants that came with, or were born here, are without their parents. You don't see everyone else being nasty to all the other people here, just because they miss their Mommy. Why should they get to be rude and have get no reaction from it? Just because of that? What does that teach them?
No they don't have to get along with everybody but they do have to work with them.
Cas, open your eyes. The jobs are not going to line up at your feet for you, and ask you to do them. As they've so lovingly pointed out we don't know you, we don't know what you can and can't do. So You could say 'Hi, I'm whatevermyname is, these are things I can do. Can I help out anywhere with the skill set I have?' Or you could just do something you see that needs to be done.
I'm sorry, normally I throw a feast for everyone that walks in off the spire, and make demands. But you know pregnancy and giving birth kind of put a damper on being able to do that. But wait, I might have actually been doing my job that day. Or I could have been collecting food to feed the ungrateful. Because I was doing that until it started a bloody downpour.