I didn't have a problem listening to the bearded Miguel. Because, and here's the key here, he decided not to be an asshole. He decided he wanted to help. He decided not to bite the hand that was offering to feed him.
It's a wonder what a little honey does, instead of vinegar. I'm not asking you to kiss ass, here James, I'm asking you for a little bit of the golden rule, to treat me how you want to be treated.