I see! My late husband and I were married in 1908, so the way that we did things is likely to seem just as strange for most people here. How lovely that a marriage resulted from your last event!
It's a kind offer, but it would be far too much of a demand for someone I don't know, especially if she were watching other children at the time. They're well-behaved, but there are seven of them. I'll ask among the people I know here, and see if I can't find someone.