we are here until we are returned home and we cannot change that. just as we cannot change if or when these things may happen to us. to live in fear of them all the time? it cannot be done. back home, if i were to fear what the sea would do every time my husband or my sister or my brothers were away, i would do nothing, and that cannot be.
if it helps, everyone here would help you and your family if that were to happen. the people here are kind.