Private: Johnn/Kat
Don't be. I love my family but things do get complicated when you grow up together, fighting for your parents' love and attention. Parents have such a huge impact on your life. Without them and without their behaviour and guidance, you would not be you. And that creates a lot of trouble.
But I have the feeling you do not mean an actual family. More a community, people who are very close to one another and who love and support each other.