You don't look that different, no, and you still have all your hair! Although 'kind-of-not-dead' makes you sound like a zombie or something. Don't be a zombie or something.
Visit as opposed to what? We can't bring her back to the station. I wanted to do that with you when Bryn and me went back to the Overlook, but it doesn't work that way. Besides, that would leave little me on my own. His own. Whatever. This is a headfuck.