I hope you're right, I don't doubt that you are. His charms, what they were, isn't exactly what I'm worried about, if he could charm her, regardless of his state of being, and he made my daughter happy, I'd be happy too, because I know he'd have to work very hard to do it. I'm mostly being an overprotective Mamma, and the 'stranger danger' has me wary.
I just see you as over six feet being more intimidating than their five feet and a few inches.
I didn't know Ashley knew how to sign, that's great news.