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Netrunners mod journal (chromed) wrote in compass_network,
@ 2015-09-18 14:39:00

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~adele, ~kytana rogers

Filtered to Rachel and Sarah, Sookie S, Adele, Kytana R
(Ooc: If Sookie is still a kidlet assume this didn't go to her)

I need advice. A mer city showed up off the pier and Cris wants me to come live with him. I'm torn.

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	rachelsully 2015-09-18 06:49 pm UTC (link)
	I'm afraid this is a decision you have to make yourself, little sister. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	chromed 2015-09-20 12:35 pm UTC (link)
	You're no help at all big sis. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	rachelsully 2015-09-20 07:57 pm UTC (link)
	I'm just really not the sibling to get relationship advice from. Try asking ~~the one that hasn't fucked up every relationship~~ Sarah. (Reply to this) (Parent)

	underpressurexx 2015-09-18 07:35 pm UTC (link)
	Much as I wanna say do it, I agree with Rach. At least if you did go you're not on the other side of the country or world like through a door. You're still in range of traveling, visiting, no diff than if you had an apartment on the shore, right? I dunno. You know I'm wild and crazy and Im bad advice. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	chromed 2015-09-20 12:36 pm UTC (link)
	That's true. I just don't want to cut myself off from the surface if that makes any sense? All my friends and family are up here except you and Cris, and I spent the first twenty years of my life with legs on land. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	underpressurexx 2015-09-20 12:42 pm UTC (link)
	If you don't wanna go, merl, don't go! Simple. Take a week and think "ok how often do I go see someone and would it kill me to take an extra 20 minutes to get there?" It doesn't take long to make the trip. Just people can't come over for tv. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	chromed 2015-09-20 12:51 pm UTC (link)
	It isn't that, though I probably will spend a lot of time on land either way. ~~Maybe I could get your mom to give us mer quarters in the temple?~~ Maybe I just need to talk to Cris about it. I need to figure out what he expects/wants. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

underpressurexx
2015-09-20 01:08 pm UTC (link)

Tell him you wanna wait until you're really serious, then. It still hasn't been all that long, I guess. I'm sure he'll understand!

Why don't you also make a pro/con list? I do that when I think I'm about to make what could be a bad decision--which is half of the time, anyway. :p

Like...PRO; Cristiano~~~ CON; Only Cristiano....man that's gotta be lonely down there, you won't even have any neighbors, just the fish.

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	chromed 2015-09-21 03:30 pm UTC (link)
	I'm serious! It's just a big step. Cris is a big pro, but being down there by ourselves all the time is a big con. He's awfully lonely I think, it would be great if he could go back and forth like us. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

underpressurexx
2015-09-22 01:42 am UTC (link)

Then tell him no, merl. It's not like he's going anywhere and there's no real rush to move in together. If you were married or pregnant I think that'd be different but since you're not those things I am sure he will understand!

Daddy's heart would break, mom's too, but I've sort of been wondering if Cris would mind if I picked a place. Gotta get the prime real estate before it's gone. Vacation home, obvs.

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	chromed 2015-09-22 01:52 am UTC (link)
	I'll talk to him. It's a big step...or tail swish I guess. True, I'm neither of those things. It's dangerous to talk about them on the island, in this time anyway. It's beautiful down there Kyt! It really is, just empty. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

underpressurexx
2015-09-22 01:55 am UTC (link)

Make it less empty. Invite people. I'm sure one of the geniuses here can make something to enable people to go down there for a while if not just, you know, use regular scuba gear. Someone sciency or magicky has to have a way to get visitors on land and sea.

You could always ask Cris if he wants to live up here with you. I bet if you flashed him he'd say yes. Boys do that.

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	chromed 2015-09-22 01:57 am UTC (link)
	Good ideas all. And he's already seen them, remember? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	underpressurexx 2015-09-22 02:00 am UTC (link)
	Yeah but did you push them together like Aaah look at meeeeee~~? lol sorry no I'm not lololol (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Kytana chromed 2015-09-22 02:20 am UTC (link)
	Are you trying to make sure Cris and I add to the number of Sully grandkids? My older sisters certainly didn't take long in that department. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Juliet underpressurexx 2015-09-22 02:24 am UTC (link)
	I'm just saying. Plus it's not like him looking would do anything. He seems like a respectful kinda guy not to just drag your fish ass across the sandy floor. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Kytana chromed 2015-09-22 02:29 am UTC (link)
	Part of me would like him to do just that. We haven't done anything but kiss yet. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Jules underpressurexx 2015-09-22 02:32 am UTC (link)
	Be strong, merl! The wait will be worth it! You don't want to jinx up your family genes! Plus, Cris is still settling in. He's been here like, a month. Poor guy has no idea what the what. (Reply to this) (Parent)

	sarah_sully 2015-09-19 02:42 am UTC (link)
	Are you guys at that point? (Reply to this) (Thread)

	chromed 2015-09-20 12:37 pm UTC (link)
	Kinda? Things are moving pretty fast. I really really like him and he treats me like a queen. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	sarah_sully 2015-09-21 04:36 am UTC (link)
	I'm not going to li, moving in is huge. It can change things in both good and bad ways. But it's not something that can't be undone if you find you're not ready for it. And you're also allowed to do it slowly. Like one drawer at a time. Or even just a toothbrush. (Reply to this) (Parent)

	namedaftergran 2015-09-19 05:49 am UTC (link)
	Maybe give it a try, spend some time living there and see how you like it. Your family isn't going anywhere, you can always go back. ~~My family on the other hand is falling apart.~~ (Reply to this) (Thread)

	chromed 2015-09-20 12:38 pm UTC (link)
	True. How are things going with your mom and dad? Patched things up yet? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	namedaftergran 2015-09-20 10:02 pm UTC (link)
	No, not yet. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	chromed 2015-09-21 12:06 am UTC (link)
	Ugh, I'm sorry cuz. Someone needs to just lock them in a room together until they figure things out. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	namedaftergran 2015-09-21 03:09 am UTC (link)
	~~They might kill each other.~~ I keep hoping they'll figure this out before it comes to that. (Reply to this) (Parent)