Maryanne
You did not read what I wrote. Even if he has good intentions, he can still cause. And his reasons to create havoc are complex and unpredictable. You haven't seen every side of him.
That is not the point. If you think that an affection for you protects you, then you do not know him. I lost my mother, I grew up without my parents because he antagonized the people on the island enough for them to attack him.