I’ve met your brain. It’s one of your many wonderful features. But because I’ve met your brain, I know it can go from 0 to overloaded with anxiety in the blink of an eye. And I want you to know that if you want to plan a surprise date, I’ll be excited. And if you’d rather wait and do it another time or not at all, I will not be disappointed. Because either way, it’ll be with you.
Let’s figure out how to make it work without creating a paradox before we attempt it. Sound good? That way we don’t do it too dangerously, but it’s not entirely off the table.
Good. I’ll be sure to make sure any shopping we do is short and to the point.
I think relationships are easy when it’s good and sunny, but if you can make it work when it gets less so, that’s what’s really important. And enjoying the sunny days. Picking what battles to fight and when to compromise. And accepting and loving each other. Supporting. Choosing each other each day. I’m sure they did those things and more.