Every kingdom where I come from has a Queen with few exceptions. It is our duty to make sure our people are cared for and listened to as well as protected and safe in their kingdom and beyond. I dare say that not all monarchs of my world have this philosophy but fortunately, my King has the view that if it's happening on his land, it is his problem.
Grisha are purveyors of the Small Science. I happen to be one of the strongest in history. It was my job for many years to make sure Grisha of every kingdom had a home where they could be safe and learn about the Small Science in Ravka. I also led an all-Grisha army.
The people of Ravka also tend to be religious which is why I am also one of two living saints, which is rare. Most saints aren't declared until after their death. I'm Saint Zoya of the Storm and that title comes with a healthy number of expectations from my people as well.
To be your age again, I think, would be lovely if I knew then what I know now.