Years to repair, he repeated to himself. "It felt like it would take years," he admitted. He wasn't sure that he had a good answer to that. "You have to remember that you can't live for someone else. You can't put so much into it, that you forget who you are." He raised a brow, knowing that was the right answer, at least for him.
"My big problem was that I lost sight of that. Trying to twist myself into some pretzel and be all things to all people - I was ridiculous. I wouldn't have been happy like that and neither will you. Do something for yourself, and you might be happy again. You will be amazed how much better you feel, and how people will see you differently. You will get yourself back."