Re: [Accidently includes Sebastian in filter to Calum]
Well, if they're talking ABOUT you, it's probably not a good time, aye. That's generally one of those probably waiting to be invited things, but elsewise...asking him about it's probably the best way to be direct.
Maybe add the parts where you're apprehensive. It probably wouldn't be a right away sort of thing, so you'd BOTH have the time to work that out how you feel comfortable.