Please do not secretly record such private meetings for the sake of encouragement. I do not know how I would explain that to Ser Calum, let alone Ser Iomhar.
Please, come by. At the worst, you may discover that our clothing is a bit shoddy still, and our mugs do not match, but there is peace here. Or I can offer, as I did your brother, and invite you, purely so it does not feel like you are intruding.