Michel Combeferre (etrelibre) wrote in angelnet, @ 2013-11-23 10:15:00 |
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Current mood: | pissed off |
Far be it from me to claim that I possesses an understanding of psychology, after all, I am only a doctor one semester away from finishing at the Paris Medical School, but the new "therapist" is possibly the least theraputic,most judgemental, assinine asshat...is that how you use the word? ...individual... I have ever had the misfortune to meet. So, something of a recap and rant of yesterday.
No, the three of us do not have a dysfunctional relationship because there are three of us and we happen to love each other. The fact that we are not in fact all sleeping together because one of us is asexual does not in any way mean we are not healthy, normal, or able to function on a daily basis. ...At least our ability to function is not impeeded by the three of us being together. It is, in fact, making us better as it gives us something to hold onto.
I had worried myself, when the three of us started this here, because they are my friends first and I would do nothing to harm them, or our friendship in any way, but we, who actually know each other better than any other force in this world, have made an informed decision based upon that understanding, and it has proved to be a saving grace that roots us to each other and towards stability.
I'll also thank the idiot not to touch my beau when he stated he does not often like to be touched by most of our friends, let alone some random woman he'd just met. "Exposure therapy" or not, that is most certainly NOT the way to go about it, thank you very much. Even I know this much.
I am entirely relieved Courfeyrac and I had not made our appointments beyond the initial first interview with Enjolras.
This is not helpful, it is not therapeutic and my lovers and I will not be going back to her brand of "therapy", thank you very much. It seems that we need recommendations if anyone here would be so kind.