Well, you're here now, right? I'm not usually one to throw optimistic shit at people when I don't think there's any chance, but our showing up here probably drastically affected the world wherever we're from.
There's a couple people here who are actually dead at home, but alive here. You might have gotten lucky with that, and it might actually be okay.
But hey, I've gotten a good bar recommended and I'm always up for company while I drink. Wanna tag along?