And in mine… Heirs take priority, in general, spares the next… and the rest can go a bit to the void, at least so far as my father was raised. He raised me better than that, I’d say, but no’ my brother, and his sons… mixed bag all around.
I understand priority where it’s at all possible, and there are things I’d do for my son, my nephews, and the rest, but never at the expense of a larger group of people who count on me.