1) Well, let's see if we can do something about that. And well, you don't need to be brilliant to find a way to survive as long as you're happy. We can look for what you love.
2)Ah, medical issues like that sounds like you might need a specialist. We can see. If you don't feel comfortable telling a woman, I can find a man to speak with you, or we can pass things anonymously until you feel comfortable.
3) I believe peanuts are an American nut? So that might contribute to that. My world was different, which does not help. My entire country does not exist here.
4) 1870's - I guess you probably had staff to help out as well? Or never really had to consider beyond the budget? Seasonal food and all that. I bet I can get you some people, not from your era, but who might be able to help.
5) And - let's see - science and technology information. We can work on that.