"Some places care if you want to be a guy or a girl or something in between, and linguistically, some languages are pretty pushy about using one or the other. It's okay if you don't have an opinion, but it's nice to ask." Yvette waved a hand. "And as to the internet, I can help with that. A friend of mine made some informational stuff for people from places that don't have the internet. We've had some people from - I suppose the Middle Ages would be a good analogy, so they were really confused."