Re: Jai & Luce
No that's not what I think at all. I think I'm barely 21 and have never fucked up on even a moderate level before and I think we can both agree that this was a colossal fuck up. I think you had room to fuck up in your early 20s and learned and grew from it.
I had no idea how to deal with any of it and I shut down. Maybe it was wrong but it's not like I have any frame of reference for how to cope with what happened or how to let someone help me through it. My parents pushed independence and responsibility hardcore. It's all I've ever known.