Re: Dom & Lucy
Well, you like a plan, don't you? If she's away at Hogwarts, use the school holidays as a benchmarking opportunity. Take the next three months to figure out if you do want to date him.
Also, how old is he if he has an 11 year old? The name is familiar but I don't know him personally. If he's closer to 40 than 30, please ignore everything I've said because that seems like a major red flag if he can't find a woman his own age.