jack benjamin is not going to run, not anymore (jackathan) wrote in valarnet,
Whatever Your Name Is
[ooc: warning for use of a gay slur]
If he's as good a friend as you think he is, then he won't care. And most people these days don't, odds are high that even if he doesn't feel the same way he won't be a dick about it. But if he does care... I know it won't feel like it at the time, but if he does care, if he leaves you or calls you a faggot or whatever else, he is not worth your time. Period. No matter how much you care about him. It's taken me a long time to learn that and come to grips with it, but the people who give you shit for who you are and how you feel are just not ever going to be worth the time you waste missing them. I didn't know how to exist without my parents, but I learned. If you have to, you'll learn how to live without your friend.