I highly doubt Cass knew how you feel about it. You could have told him. And I wouldn't threaten someone that vandalized a church, I'd report them to the police.
I don't leash my husband. Look, I'll talk to Sable. Stop overreacting. This is about to get bad for you if Ares is involved. I know you love her, and want to protect her, but this is really just overblowing things.