Ahh I need to re-watch High Fidelity! It's been a few years at least.
Christ, I just realized that High Fidelity might have a lot to do with my fondness for Ollie, especially the Ollie in my head who's super-contrite toward the Arrow Family.
That is part of the appeal of Ollie, I think. He talks the talk, but doesn't always walk the walkâand then he has to deal with his hypocrisy. (Although it is annoying if it is never dealt with.)
I don't believe we guys really have any right to an opinion about the morality of abortion. Not our bodies, not our business. It is our right (if not obligation!) to fight to put the choice in women's hands, but we have no place to tell them which choice they should make (though in an ideal relationship it would probably be collaborative i guess).
Agreed 100% on all of that. Well, actually, I would say that both men and women have a right to an opinion on whether or not it's moral to have an abortion. But the costs of such opinions can be very high for women if they influence society and health/government systems to the point where women doesn't have access to safe and legal abortion (not to mention information about it in the first place).