It does matter. You have that wish, and that matters as much as whatever else is in that file. Maybe more, but we can't know that based on a few pieces of paper and this display you're putting on.
If you ever want to discuss it, without the darts, [she can't help but smile just a little] let me know. I'll listen. Even if you don't trust me, you'd have little to lose. [And, she's sure, something to gain, if his desire to protect is from the heart.]