A fangirl dates
So, I can no longer date outside the fandom. When I started watching QAF I was dating a woman who actually was a pretty big QAF fan, but not THAT KIND of fan. If you know what I mean and ummm... I know that you do.
When with non-believers, I feel like I'm constantly trying to hide how I feel about Brian and Justin. And at first I thought this was because I'm a lesbian and obviously must hide my obsession with a boy/boy pairing from other lesbians, but then I thought: Yo, don't straight women feel the need to hide their obsession with a boy/boy pairing from the men in their lives?
And does this mean bisexual women feel they must hide it from everyone?
Tell me, fangirls and honorary fangirls: Can you date outside the fandom? If so, do you feel you must hide your obsession?