I think it depends? Maybe make dinner instead? Night in isn't so bad as long as it's not every night. And it's true about the flowers. Different flowers mean different things. I knew a little about it back in art school but it's even more complicated now. You could be giving someone an 'I hate you' bouquet and you wouldn't even know it.
Might wanna save that one.
I'm really just here for the moral support. I've been on one date in about 80 years.