Maybe if one of the people in this house you thought was your friend was a little too happily involved with a convo that said "screw those poor, whiny black people. Let's hope next time there's a trip where they all get to be slaves again and run a few of them under a few horses. Ooo wouldn't that be something," you might get it a little better?
Like I told Daniel, I don't care that you guys wanted to go have your own party without us or whatever. That whole situation was shit, but WE weren't the ones who did that. Be pissed at Them. I'm pretty sure we've all had enough of that stupid "us vs them" (not capitalized) bullshit.