Simms, not only am I not a lawyer, what little I do know about the law is from my one high school law class in another country. But I do know a bit about Catholic canon law, and unfortunately, what you told me is under the seal of the confessional. This means I absolutely cannot act on that information by defending you in court.
I'm concerned about Lila too, but you'd probably be just as well off defending yourself as you would be with some layman going through the motions. You probably know more about the legal system than a lot of other people here.