I can blame him for it. It makes me feel awfully angry to think of the injustice of it. I was four when my magic manifested itself. I had new clothes, in a different style to signify that I was growing up, and my parents held a grand celebration in my honour. In pureblood families children's first magic is praised, even if the accidental spell itself causes damage, because we know that control has to be learnt. And your own father sent you away to be taught that your gift was a curse.
Yes, if it had gotten that far I think you can trust that your work will be finished, even without you to lead it. I'm glad for that. And that you aren't here alone.