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A checklist isn't bad, but ... sometimes it's better to go with your gut? I like smart people, funny people. I like someone who can challenge me.
Sometimes it's just about being yourself. And I get that it's probably awkward sometimes, but around here being yourself will probably be the least weird thing.
I was mostly meaning so you can relax. Try and unwind before you go, so you're not stressed or tense. If you hate everyone you hate everyone, but you have to give them a chance first.