1. I was definitely dead or at least headed that way. I was falling off a cliff. 2. I don't really consider myself dead here. I have a heartbeat and I can breather. 3. No. I can do a lot anyway. I don't need anything more. 4. I think they probably do. With marriages, I think it depends on the marriage. If they were your greatest love then you're probably some sort of widow or widower. If they weren't, I think you're just single.