Cho / Terry
Naturally I am very sorry to hear that, Cho. As I'm sure you're aware, Roger and I have become somewhat close these past months, connected on a level I never thought possible before the displacement reunited us. It is always distressing to learn a friend is at risk, whether that risk be physical, emotional, mental or otherwise; self-inflicted or due to exterior causes.
Unfortunately, in matters of the heart all we can do as his friends is express our concerns in an honest and open a fashion. Whether he accepts those concerns as viable remains his decision and one we must respect. It is not at all different than our recent conversations regarding Mr. Monroe, only you now find yourself on the opposite side of the proverbial fence.
If there is anything I can do help, I will. As for Roger, you must decide if your concerns are worth voicing and possibly creating turmoil in your friendship, or if you are able to quiet your opinions and allow fate to take its course.