"I terrify my enemies but I'll die for my friends," he said as the ice melted away from his hand. "I'll kill for my friends as well."
Yes, he was terrifying and he knew it but he had never and would never betray or hurt those who stood by him. As long as she knew she was safe with him he was happy.
"Ice is not my favorite element. I use it for defense to stop people or keep them back from me. I don't think it's for you, just from my first impressions."