So then I don't see the point in everyone fussing about you're arrival. What good is it, other than to puff each others' chests about how angry or supposedly ambivalent they are about you and possibly goad you into doing something several people would regret? And what is the point of that? It's too much like poking a sleeping dragon with a walking stick. Someone is going to wake up snarling while someone else is going to get lit on fire or eaten. Possibly both.