Captain/Jarvis
They have a great deal to answer for. I came close to needing to kill Mr. Stark when he was under their influence. It was no where near as invasive as what he went through, but I do not believe that is something someone can move on from. Luckily the crisis was averted thanks to Ms. Carter.
I think I will stick to the filters when it comes to personal matters. I can accept being old fashioned since I am, in fact, old at this point. I will distract Mr. Stark to keep him from seeing this, however. If he did, he would draw the correct conclusion in seconds. He is far smarter than anyone has a right to be.